Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.
Challenge to a Skeptic
I tend to be a skeptic. In fact, I’m even skeptical of some of the things I believe in. Rather than take someone else’s word for something, I want to check things out for myself. In 2016 when I was taking my six month PolyVagal training, we watched a video of Dr. Andrew Weil demonstrating the 4-7-8 Breath technique. He said if we practiced it faithfully twice a day for two or three months, we might notice a difference in our sleep, digestion, and anxiety level.
I decided to take him up on it. I had been trying this 4-7-8 Breath off and on since graduate school, but I was never consistent and gave up quickly. But I’ve learned a lot as a therapist over the years, and decided to take my own advice. I made a commitment to follow the directions diligently, keep going if I got discouraged and remind myself the more I practiced, the easier it would become. I kept going and it did get easier. After about six weeks I was sleeping better, I was less stressed, and I was making decisions in a more mindful way. I am still doing the 4-7-8 Breath almost two years later. On those days when things feel off for me, I often think back and realize I forgot to practice the breath. Then I sit down and do it.
So now I am going to challenge you to check out the Youtube video and give it a shot. You have nothing to lose because if you stick with it for a few months you may notice some changes for the better. And if not, at least you will be able to say, “Humph, I told you so,” and what skeptic doesn’t like to say that? I’m guessing there is a good chance you won’t, but I respect that not everything works for everyone.
Peace.